Making A Woman The Center of Your Life’s Purpose

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Author: Reekay V.

Since 2012 I’ve been traveling through various islands of the Philippines as a full-time Expat and spent 1999 living in Vietnam.

Share with me my ongoing adventures of life in the Philippines. Hopefully you find my observations helpful in your own adventures.
— Reekay


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  2. It is that you have eliminated 100% of all Western feminists as wife candidates.

    It’s that you’ve informed all men everywhere that Western feminists eliminated themselves as potential wives from the get go of their journey of anti male tribalism!

  3. When I moved here 7 yrs. ago my empty cart was definitely already behind the horse. My asawa filled it & that’s just my destiny. Though certainly not rich with pesos, I’ve enjoyed helping her with overdue things like dentist/eye doctor trips. Also funding her training in her profession so when I’m not around she has security. Perhaps all rather boring to some but I go to bed & wake up every day happy.

  4. When I said I was retiring I was told by the work buddies that I needed a part-time job so I wouldn’t become bored. Well, 19 months later I haven’t found any boredom…

  5. If you don’t have an independent purpose, she’ll make HER your purpose. Romantic love and all the emotions therein ARE deep, hot and powerful. It IS easy to get sidetracked by a woman.

  6. Well said; we need a woman that enters our frame, not the other way around; I believe at this life stage we really need someone that follow our lead and cooperate with us. making life less complicated and with zero dramas

  7. The romance brainwashing is a big money maker, a reason why the big corporations keep it going.

  8. Its weird I never find these Video on your mainsite during the first hours. Thought I would let you know about that. Maybe it´s just me but it takes 10 hours until it´s shown on your channel.

  9. Nobody ever outlined this for me, but I’m glad it has been my compass. My priorities/desires are to 1) Make a life in a traditional country where I am not hated because of my traits, 2) do (a lot more) writing in my retirement, 3) learn new languages and travel, and 4) being a husband and father. I outlined my plan for the first three and implemented it, then found #4 afterwards.

  10. I totally agree, even the songs have turned us into wimps and sims. I grew up in a very, very toxic family; it’s like, everything you ‘ve been taught, forget it, it’s all wrong. Reminds me of the Seinfeld episode where everything is the opposite.

  11. Thanks for a great video that re-focus on the most basic rule in a man’s life: finding his purpose, why, and THEN, find the girl that matches your goal.
    I get it now, finally… better very much later than never I suppose….

  12. This has to be the best advice I’ve heard in a long,long time. I was 40 years old before I figured this out. Excellent video. Keep them coming. I’m about to start my 15 year old son on your videos. I’m hoping he can learn these lessons at a young age and not waste his younger years chasing these beautiful, often misleading/distracting creatures around.

  13. Like #4, Good morning from Yipma Baruya You Tube channel. I enjoyed watching your contents, Papua New Guinea

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