Author: Reekay V.
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It all depends on your definition of “cheating”. Im my opinion, most of the cheating these days is done by messaging on Facebook, Whatsapp and Skype, not so much actual physical cheating.
Good advice.
I just learned that in Thai culture a woman having a “gik” is normal. A gik is the woman’s other sexual partner. It is not unusual to have several at the same time.
You didn’t lose the gal, you just lost your turn.
I’m in Thailand and cheating is not a problem because you already know it’s going to happen. Money number 1.
Your example of the guy going to the bar and the wife found out don’t work the other way around Filipinos will never tell the white guy anything especially the family will help hide the truth
Every man and woman should listen to this upload.
Hard to believe it is less than 18 minutes.
But trust me, this upload is gold.
It is a lifetime of wisdom masterfully told in 18 minutes.
Full of wisdom and insights on how to be in a relationship that is true, committed and honest.
Full of wisdom on what to do if your relationship is basically a lie.
Nice job, Reekay.
You hit a grand slam on this one.
Thanks!!
One thing that newcomers should be aware of, is that Filipinos absolutely CANNOT keep a secret. Gossip is the #1 most popular national pastime. And be aware that as a foreigner, you are being closely observed, by people you don’t know, or know you. Anything for a gossipy conversational nugget. And tricycle drivers are the worst offenders, who can’t keep their mouths shut, any more than a piggie can dance a minuet. If you are setting out on a stealth mission, change tricie drivers often. Trust NO ONE, and NEVER share secrets.
Haha, “Haste makes waste.” But on the opposite page of a proverb book I saw once, it said, “But the early bird gets the worm.” It was superb little book of opposing proverbs. (sigh) I wasn’t aware enough to buy it on the spot, and have wished many times I could find the title again.
Good advice !
Very wise words.
I wish I had that advice many many
years ago.
I have done the process of analyzing my filipino girls on LDR and all of them were cheaters with gay girlfriends as well with males.
Filipino society and moral values are different from
what I deem ” normal”
Dealing with Filipino girls is a high risk situation from day one.
I won’t forget your advice!
Reekay, Do you still have any contact with Michelle from Duma?
He could have tapped his niece in law(?)
Most affluent families hire a private eye to do a background check on their future son/daughter in law.
Almost 100k wooohoo
World if full of control freaks
Great advice to calm down and realize the relationship is over. Can’t fix this behavior. Not worth your time. Cut your losses and move on. Learn from it and move slower next time.
All true!
Reekay, you hit home with this one. As a young man barely out of my teens, I tried this control scheme thinking it would prevent cheating. It only led to my own mental exhaustion and she still cheated.
What is your current biggest fear?
Excellent advice, thanks for share!
If i get cheated on its a good excuse to go find another one to screw. Maybe a better one.
Sage advice.
Very impressive video, and it is a good learning tool
I’ve never truly understood the whole cheating thing my first thought on it is why would you be with somebody that would cheat on you or you feel the need to cheat on them if that’s the case just stay single