Author: Reekay V.
Since 2012 I’ve been traveling through various islands of the Philippines as a full-time Expat and spent 1999 living in Vietnam.
Share with me my ongoing adventures of life in the Philippines. Hopefully you find my observations helpful in your own adventures.
— Reekay
Reality, does suck at times!
I’ll ask if they are married but I won’t ask if they have a boyfriend. If they want to go out with you she will. If she doesn’t want to go out with you, she will volunteer the, “I have a boyfriend”, line if she really has one or not.
If she has a boyfriend and she likes you, she will breakup with him soon after meeting you. She will not want to say, “Yes, I have a boyfriend and I will go out with you anyway”, as she will lose face admitting she is a cheater on day one. If she can not talk about the boyfriend, then she can convince herself that she is not cheating. She just didn’t have time to tell the then boyfriend that she is breaking up with him yet.