Author: Reekay V.
Since 2012 I’ve been traveling through various islands of the Philippines as a full-time Expat and spent 1999 living in Vietnam.
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— Reekay
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Hi Reekay, You are talking about emotional maturity, not many people have that.
I have a buddy who has the worse taste in women. Ive directed him towards Filipina and he always lands the worst, very similar to go his ex’s back in the USA. Some guys are just into bad girls.
great video….. Patience keeping an open Mind with a refined objective set of qualities that you seek… and taking your Time …
Tell me after you left did you stay in the same area, And would you be willing to contact me so I could talk to you about what happened to my?
Henry, I admire your thinking. I wish I met you a long time ago because I was a real rookie and lost about 450K in 7 years of my time there. The other day a friend txt me and told me that they are working on my beach house, When I txt her she gave me all the stories and she told me not to worry because she was going to Saudi to work and would pay me back. When I text her back I told her why don’t you send me 400,000 now and I have not received a text back, hehe. I’m just lucky I got to bring my son here to California. I’m not upset because I see it as a lesson learned and am so thankful we never got married.
How miserable are the guys who have children with that kind of woman. Even more wretched are the ones who marry that kind of woman in the land of no divorce. Be nervous to get such a woman pregnant.. they have no regard for the psychological well being of your child.
Be especially Leary of the exceptionally pretty ones. I’ve also seen fat, ugly, old ones just as bad. Observe non verbal communication. Look out for dupers delight.
The first time you catch them lying you need to walk away. Lying is a character flaw that likely won’t be reformed. Trust is the foundation relationships are built upon.
I have been there and done that, NUMEROUS times. I have been privileged/cursed to date a high notch count of Filipinas, all in search of a woman with character and compatibility. My advice is to come to terms with the reality that you are searching for a needle in a haystack. Count your losses and move on. Our mentor Reekay is our example on how long it takes to catch the right fish. I hope I don’t come across as jaded, but guys it most likely will take quality time to find a quality women.
Reekay, thanks again for sharing. You truly have a sane, balanced approach that ultimately paid off. Always a pleasure to hear your perspective.
Some are less crazy than others but….
ALL women are crazy.
That one was bad crazy.
I enjoy a little good crazy.
But I dont let them cause me distress/angst.
Handled well sir.
Would expect nothing less from you.
Great story bro. Thanks for sharing. I think alot of us have a scam story to tell, myself included. It doesn’t do any good to get bitter or jaded. You gotta just live, learn and move on. Thankfully I met my wife after and now I’m living a blessed life.
Thanks for sharing your story. The thing is many will lie, or as they say small white lies, to save face or not make you sad or upset.
A business woman, playing the angles. I remember the story when it happened. You handled it as a mature, experienced gentleman.
Classic case of saving face. Many Asian cultures will not admit the truth.
i would of just walked out ..no discussion..
Thanks!
First mistake sending large money bye these guys then they cry when loose thar money .
I been coming to the Philippines 50 times for the last 10 years, and I been having 50 girlfriends in Cebu and all over the Philippines, THE ARE ALL THE SAME, with Pinay is all about MONY TALKS BULL SHIT WALKS.
I go along very well with Pinay, I treat my girlfriend the way she likes to be treated, when I’m tired of her I go to the next one, AND I LOVED.
FUN, FUN FUN. That’s what my retirement is all about
Sometimes Filipina have the most bizarre thinking.
They must go to school to learn lies, because a lot of them lie
Filipinos are full of stories. They must go to school to learn stories.
U kept ur cool!! Just wondering if she came looking for u after u left and created another issue??? Stay cool…
Thanks!
Great positive advice
Interesting topic with one answer of what one should do. Curious if not in some instances. I’ll wait here. lol