Author: Reekay V.
Since 2012 I’ve been traveling through various islands of the Philippines as a full-time Expat and spent 1999 living in Vietnam.
Share with me my ongoing adventures of life in the Philippines. Hopefully you find my observations helpful in your own adventures.
— Reekay
The two most common causes of Hepatitis B are: Having unprotected sex with multiple sex partners or with someone who’s infected with HBV and sharing needles during IV drug use. Both are deal killers for a long term, or even short term relationship.
I have talked to a number of women who were working in the sex trade in Thailand and they all had the same story, which I now believe. It goes like this. They were seduced by young men while they were still teenagers. The young men swore they loved them, and being naïve, they had unprotected sex with them. Of course they all quickly got pregnant, and after having their babies, the young men disappeared, leaving them to fend for themselves.
Now they have a baby, poor education, no job prospects, and their families are pressuring them to go earn money any way they can to help support their families who are very poor. So in desperation, they leave the baby with their family and head off to Bangkok, Pattaya, or Phuket to work in the girly bars. The beautiful ones make more money than they ever dreamed possible and send some of it back home, but also spend a lot of it on alcohol, drugs, and shopping trips to the local mall.
But they soon learn that there is a much easier way to earn a steady income without having to provide sex to countless men. They go on line to the dating sites and establish long distance relationships with lonely, naïve Western Men, just like the guy in this story. They easily con the men into sending them money under false pretenses and false promises. Now they have a steady income stream without having to provide endless sex to endless foreign men. They don’t feel guilty because they were conned by their baby’s daddy, who effectively destroyed their prospects for a happy life.
Yikes, how many flags does a guy need. Hopefully he learned something and doesn’t repeat. Taking it slow and boots on the ground the best way. Not to expect or set up for failure but you got to be strong enough to fold up shop and move on if you find trouble, red flags or deal breakers. Milk Toast doesn’t work out to well for a man.
The reason women scam so successfully is because there are so many easy marks.
Some men can smell them out is the first three minutes of a conversation, and some can’t see it if you you hit them with a brick. Willful blindness.
So im not the dumbest bastard in the world…
So many red flags, it’s like Mayday in Moscow
Ah, the big red flag. This goes as far back as military rifle ranges. After firing, either your target is marked and presented, or a red flag is waved over the target, in the case of a total miss. You didn’t even hit the paper. The further the distance, the bigger the flag. Also affectionately known as “Maggie’s drawers.” The history and legacy of the big red flag: You totally blew it, Buckwheat. Those closest to you completely tune in on this, they have to rely on you.. To ignore it, is to be a careless fool.
Some people just don’t get it.
Great story. Thanks. I’m cutting off the Circus for my Girlfriend and her family now. It’s getting too expensive to keep paying their bills. I was there and met everyone in person months ago but I can’t keep funding their life forever without running out of money myself.
When it takes to see if a woman there is compatible and true…Nothing like time and a “boots on the ground” approach and seeing how she acts or not in real life in her own environment and how she treats you and others among other traits. Peace
There is one word for this CHUMP sorry to say but these lying girls are just no good what so ever !
No sympathy here for pinheads w/no common sense who deserve to be scammed. .
Great content Reekay. Many males from the US have been conditioned to be so feminized they unconsciously comply, acquiesce, and go along with anything. The good news is he had made the choice to reach out to you and get feedback. I can imagine how many don’t ask for help and marry Filipinas with land mines all over. Men are many times seduced by beauty, youth and the fantasy.
Most of it is just a good old common sense, good judgement and awareness.
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