Q&A: Making Plans On A Virtual LDR-Relationship

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Author: Reekay V.

Since 2012 I’ve been traveling through various islands of the Philippines as a full-time Expat and spent 1999 living in Vietnam.

Share with me my ongoing adventures of life in the Philippines. Hopefully you find my observations helpful in your own adventures.
— Reekay


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  2. Also realize she’s going to face many temptations in the United States that she’s never faced before. she may very well run off with your best friend. I’ve seen it happen several times.

  3. I don’t believe in online relationships. I have to date her in the Philippines where she is and it takes around a year to get to know who she really is, first

  4. Loved the show and loved the comments. Let me add 1 of my own – How did you make Sure that she is Legally Single ? or not a She-male ? or have no Criminal record ?

  5. So many red flags in this situation.
    30 y.o. with several failed relationships (can’t always be the man fault). Desperate to move overseas with a man she has never met in person, leaving her family and friends behind. Wanting systematically to get involved with a foreigner (focus is on financial gain/stability rather than loving the man himself).
    Even if she is a person of good character (which may not be the case) the probability of having enough compatible values and suitable personality traits to have a successful long term marriage (after on line dating and few weeks in person) is close to 0%. Once people fall out of love after a year or two (the love hormones fall back to normal level) the reality of life and relationship struggles hit, particularly between different cultures. This young man seems naive and is about to make a huge mistake which could ruin his financial and emotional life. Unfortunatelt the odds are against him.

  6. Good advice Reekay. Lol I would never bring a Filipina back to my home country & take her out of her element w/every yahoo sniffin & chasing her. Especially w/girl ONLY 30 y/o from a LDR where u never even spent any real time together. LET THE BUYER BEWARE…..

  7. You may consider that a pre nuptial agreement with a poor filipina will not hold up in court, translated or not. It is too big of imbalance,. States have many laws on property division from marriage, your little piece of paper may not mean much.

  8. So I’ve been corresponding with a Filipima since April 2017. I’ve been watching for anomalies but see none. She’s been approved for a US work visa. I plan to spend a month with her where she will be living. What say you to this? I don’t think anyone can fake it for 4 years.

  9. I think actually being with your filipina…going home to visit the family, and now not allowed to go back,now in a forced LDR…I think it’s 10x harder being away…than it is if we were both waiting to meet.
    But that’s just my feelings..lol

  10. If a Filipina has been through multiple relationships with both the locals and foreigners by the time she is 30 yrs of age, then you might want to reconsider, particularly if you are looking for a wife. There are quite a few damaged goods type Filipinas online. Note!!! There is an automatic 10 year financial responsibility that comes with you sponsoring her.

  11. Hi Reekay’s,How are you, love your content nice explanation. I Hope we meet in the Philippines someday,Dauin negros oriental my hometown..

  12. Great video. Wish I could have seen this when I was young at this man’s age working full-time and trying to find a bride. Although much easier to meet young ladies when young, every lady I met had huge ulterior motives. One lady had an undisclosed lover she was going to petition after getting her green card. Unlike my experience with American ladies my age, it was not about real love. I was blindsided. The family had higher priority than I did. My experience in PH forcibly converted me from a blue mentality to a red one after huge mistakes hurt me financially and emotionally. I found Zero love, 100% hypergamy and no exceptions. That was my experience as a recent University graduate. Peace.

  13. Good question submission and a great response, Reekay. I agree he should watch any YT creator who presents a positive but realistic content regarding age gap relationships ( Gio, yourself, The Black Filipino). As you have said a million times…boots on the ground and meet face to face is a must. Ask questions, take notes of her answers. Revisit those questions periodically to see if her answers differ each time you ask them. Use caution and ask lots of questions before your visit.

  14. Great advice bro. I look at the type of phone and job she has. If she has really expensive phone but no job. Its no go.

  15. She’s thirty, she’s got alot of experience with older expats. Think you have a big lesson coming. Jijijijiji

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