Author: Reekay V.
Since 2012 I’ve been traveling through various islands of the Philippines as a full-time Expat and spent 1999 living in Vietnam.
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If a man is dating period! it’s always gonna be friends with benefits, no matter where you go
That’s a nice video very sexy women but it’s not how most filipina women dress. I’m american living in leyte even in the bigger cities I don’t see that.
That sounds like really good advice! I was going to say, before the video even finished, that arrangement isn’t for me. I’m looking for ONE good woman that I have some things in common with, to share my life.
Many guys here simply have serial relationships
Had a great FWB in the states…even after she moved on with Mr. Serious she and I maintained a connection if only as little as happy birthday or merry Christmas. But what’s going on at the subconscious level?…her sense of validation and escape back door is filled; and for me the fantasy of her man F’s up one iota or she just wants to talk… we’ll have lunch and we both know what happens next under extra-excitement of “taboo”…That’s why FWB’s or even “friends” in relationships are not really advisable; they undermine relationships. The very real risk is the reason you move forward with faith, sincerity and honesty. Male friends—-all male friends at some level want to “smack it” no matter what lies we tell her or tell ourselves.
This sounds like such a sad existence. It makes me even more happy that I’m happily married to a US citizen. I’m 58 and decently well off, and I don’t want to play STD roulette if I unexpectedly found myself single again. The more of these videos I watch, the less inclined I become to seek my next soulmate in the Philippines. Yeah, no, imma take my chances in the states. I’m a federal employee with a good salary and great benefits. Yes, I might meet and marry a beautiful young woman who wants nothing more than to be my wife, but it seems far more likely imma get scammed or taken advantage of. Nope nope nope.
I have definitely changed my idea of what I am looking forward too in the Philippines. Before i just wanted to meet someone there and see where it goes . Now I’m only interested in me the first year not even wanting to date. That’s getting in physical shape from recovering from knees surgery and learning about the people in the Philippines. I want understand myself before even think about getting into a relationship
The problem with Exclusivity is that there is nothing in the Vers that enforces it.
Over the decades I have way more Exclusive-non exclusive, real life stories of events I have seen or experienced, then Exclusive-exclusive events.
Or…. Later on she decides she wants to be exclusive and you don’t. I’m glad I experienced it here in the U.S. but I never want to go through that again.
I’m surprised that it’s that common in the Philippines. I thought most of the women wanted security from another man.
HIV and Mpox on the rise in PH, I’ll pass on the immorality train
I will date with intent
I will never get married again. I went through hell twice. they always came first, and I always came last never again. buuuut a lifelong relationship is OK by me. So is a long-term relationship without marriage possible ? Who knows but I’m willing to try it out in a few years.
Why does a friends-with-benefits arrangement HAVE to be non-exclusive, sexually? Obviously, both of you can have other friends. But why are you OBLIGED to have sex with other people? Why are you even OBLIGED to date other people? If you both prefer to be sexually exclusive, I see no reason why that’s not possible or allowed. It obviously makes things simpler, and less risky. I see that part as optional – to be agreed upon by said special friends.
This video is very easy to watch, as the girls are delightful.
Be wise gentlemen, no matter what type of dating style you gravitate to … Wrap it! Use condoms judicially.
All expats landing in the Philippines should do FWB for the first year. Just use a condom. If she won’t let you, kick her out!!!
Great video Reekay, I’m visiting in September. Looking forward to my experiences and the beautiful scenery, beaches and the clear waters. Do you recommend anywhere specifically in bohol and or Cebu?
Double edged sword. Too sharp for me.
FWB can also end if one of you decide that you want to go exclusive, despite previous claims.
Maid with benefits, next day hire new maid to clean.
Have been doing the FWB for over ten years now in the USA mostly due to not as many good women here. And this is a perfect reason I am considering looking in the Philippines. Yes, it was fun, but hell no you can not find a wife doing that type of life.
What if someone doesn’t have any social media, such as Facebook….how does one get a private online consultation?
Awesome advice as usual.
I’m not watching her build a life w/ another guy, I’m gonna lose my S@$& before that happens lol, jk