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The guy that hits the jackpot in Vegas looks great, but you have to ask how much money has he put into that machine and how many other machines has he dropped money into before he hit the jackpot that one time!
I’m locked into being in the US right now. I’ve got a couple of the items you talked about, I’m taking care of my son and my mom. It is why I’m not there and what you talk about here is why I don’t have a girl over there. My friend that lives there tried to set me up twice. I never got too close to the 1st, because I could visit (lockdown). The second started asking for money for a ‘new phone’ pretty fast., I didn’t bite and w stopped talking. I asked my friend about the 1st before my visit this year and she had a kid with her local boyfriend, and an Aussie she’d suckered into sending her money. You’re right about not doing the LDR thing.
You have a very deep understanding of the Filipina and their culture. Great advice and great topic!
Men can be blinded by the smiling and lovely Filipina. Lol
I meat my girlfriend on FB 5 years ago. Went to see her 5 months later. Then again 3 years later and I plan to retire this year and we will get married next year
My one and only Filipina GF here in the US…we met at work and started dating mostly high sex energy dates since I eventually learned she had a fiancé who was a C level executive and loaded. Good for her. I was her boy toy until she got married to him. So yes they can rationalize just about any situation. It was fun while it lasted. She married the guy and had a kid and was living happily ever after until I bumped into her at the gym. We hooked up for lunch and one last round to settle a score of her husband cheating on her…
I have heard the stories about horny Filipinas too many times to believe they are just a stereotype. It is understandable when you consider that Spain ruled the Philippines from 1564 to 1898 so Spanish colonialists had around 330 years to interbreed with Filipinas. Now you have a highly volatile cocktail of Asian and Spanish blood, which is like a smoldering volcano able to erupt without any warning, giving rise to the expression “Me So Horny.” Think of what happens when you crush two hemispheres of Plutonium together with massive force. If the sum total of both hemispheres achieves Critical Mass, you will expect a massive detonation, or, in our case, Orgasmic Eruption. So, I don’t think we should condemn Filipinas for their uncontrollable lust, because in the immortal words of the famous rocker Little Richard, “The Girl Can’t Help It.”
Now contrast super horny Filipinas with the Puritanical Roots of American Women. The Puritans fled to America because the Europeans kicked their pious asses out of Europe for being insufferable prudes. It was all about sin and and the resultant eternal damnation imposed by their loving and merciful God. Suspected witches were to be burned at the stake, Scarlet Letter A’s and banishment from the community for any un-married women who were caught screwing, and excommunication from the church for uttering a blasphemous remark. A woman was either a virgin or a whore. Puritanism was so oppressive that most young American Women of today have chosen to be whores. And they are proud of it.
We truly live in interesting times.
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The most important decision a man will ever make is who he chooses as a mate. To think he can complete the process in 3 weeks lacks common sense and proper judgement. Especially considering the potential long term negative results of choosing the wrong woman. A high percentage of men are poor at selecting their mate in their own country as it is, but to come to a different country, culture and so on is even more difficult. Why be in a hurry?
I am the lucky one, we started chatting in april 2020, married online 2021 january in Utah U.S.A, i got my married visa and first time i get to see my wife that was in march 2021 ( 3weeks in PH). My wife get Residence Permit in September 2021, i come back in November 2021 and new real wedding on the beach and my wife move permanently in Europe with me 2022 January. Now my wife almoust living here 2-years and he got now extended resident permit +4 years and also she is pregnant and expecting her first child with me.
I dont agree that is so hard to find beautiful, never been married and having any baby Fililipina and start chatting with her and build relationship online.
I know so many who is done that and still they are married. Moustly the relationship is starting online, not like you have done it. You are minority and majority of relationships are formed online.
I don’t think I could date a person that wants me to send money. Just too difficult for me culturally as an American
So, four weeks then?
Hi Reekay, how many times have you experienced this happening to you personally? God Bless, thank you for the videos.
10:14 I like your videos so much more lately. As best I recall, in the past it seemed like you would take too long to get to the point, but now I think your videos are great!
I read this book:
“Intercultural Marriage: Promises and Pitfalls” by Dugan Romano
In it I learned that, contrary to what people think, an intercultural marriage is a HIGH-RISK marriage. People seem to think that after you use guidelines to eliminate women who have a plan to scam, the remaining women have traditional values and are much more likely to form a lasting, happy marriage.
Dugan makes the point that nowhere is it traditional for women to marry foreigners. The unusual women who do this are often trying to escape their traditional culture. He says, if you dare to take the risk of an intercultural marriage, don’t compound the risk by marrying a person from another social class. He didn’t say this in so many words, but I believe he means that the difference between people of different classes is just as problematic as the difference between people from different cultures.
Here is an excerpt from a super interesting article, which you should read in its entirety here:
tinyurl dot com slash 47ujyr79
BRIFFAULT’S LAW:
The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.
There are a few corollaries I would add:
1) Past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association.
2) Any agreement where the male provides a current benefit in return for a promise of future association is null and void as soon as the male has provided the benefit (see corollary 1)
3) A promise of future benefit has limited influence on current/future association, with the influence inversely proportionate to the length of time until the benefit will be given and directly proportionate to the degree to which the female trusts the male (which is not bloody likely).
Henry what are the responsibilities once you bring her to your country and chance your mi mind
Sending a gal money does guarantee she will ask for more $$$. LOl! Unfortunately people trying to make a relationship work that you’ve meet in person for 2 or 3 weeks and talked online for a year you tend to blow through red flags coz you’ve spent too many hours online with and spent more money on and don’t see how to meet someone better easily if you’re still in the states or Canada. Very good video.
Can’t imagine why anyone would think you could find and get to know someone from ANYWHERE in the world in three weeks, even with online video chatting and phone calls, without spending MONTHS in person getting to know them. “Boots on the ground” like you say are essential. I’d go even further to say you shouldn’t start looking until you have actual boots on the ground – this means no dating sites until you are there, and even then, like you pointed out, the best places to meet a good woman are in the places most modern people wouldn’t think to normally go to meet a woman (grocery store, bus, church, etc.).
Good advice, mate! Thanks for sharing!
Most women aren’t the only ones delusional.
I don’t get why some guys are wired for self-sabotage.
If it’s pu*sy you want, you don’t have to wreck yourself.
I have been watching a lot of YouTube about Philippines.
And yours videos, in my opinion, are the most REAL.
Thanks for every advice. Very well mature advice.
One has to look before leaping and it’s not a good report to extort money under false pretense and claiming to love
Some years ago I read a comment by a guy on the website “Happier Abroad”. He was basically claiming that you could have a girlfriend 5 minutes after stepping off the plane.
His rhetoric implied that desperate girls where lined up outside the airport just waiting for foreigners to exit the building.
I knew he was full of it, but I did feel it was somewhat insulting to the Filipinas.
Excellent video! So much magical thinking behind those decisions. I know one guy who did that and his Filipina has cheated on him, spent his money, and creates nightmare after nightmare for him.
Your content is so valuable.
I start my location independent lifestyle in Jan in SE Asia. I will continue to care for my elderly mother but will move forward with my life as well. I created excellent loving care for her when I’m away, as my siblings don’t care. I’m a very responsible resourceful man and this is evidence of that. Life is not black or white to me.
I agree with your analogy of the slot machines. To permanently commit to marriage with someone just met seems like trying to make $1million in the stock market in one year with $10. Thank you Reekay
How stupid , people (man) can be, to do this kind of things.
Excellent advice and you are correct in all aspects. But I’m blessed to be the exception to the rule. We met right before Covid, so many visits were delayed, but I do feel that only strengthened our relationship. I did trust in that blind faith and am quit confident in our four year relationship. At this time we’re waiting on the K-1 visa approval. So as I truly believe in your advice, I believe our relationship has been a true blessing from the start. Thank you for sharing.
If you go to Philippines or Southeast Asia looking for a genuine wife, you really need to LIVE THERE.
In time, she and her family/friends will reveal her whole self to you.
Lessons learned
Watched a few hundred YouTubes on PI. Lived in 17 places for 6 months or more in North America, and pretty adaptable. Been to Malaysia and Singapore and some other places, so I think I will like the weather, perhaps in Valencia, not too far from Duma. I think income is more than adequate. Are the provinces North of Valencia good places to visit for a LT relationship? Did my slut thing in my youth. 66 years old. Thanks, and stay well!
GOOD INFORMATION BECAUSE SO MANY SHYSTERS OUT THERE TO STRAIGHT UP LIE TO YOUR FACE OR BEHIND YOUR BACK IT TAKES TIME TO FIND THE ONE
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The guy that hits the jackpot in Vegas looks great, but you have to ask how much money has he put into that machine and how many other machines has he dropped money into before he hit the jackpot that one time!
I’m locked into being in the US right now. I’ve got a couple of the items you talked about, I’m taking care of my son and my mom. It is why I’m not there and what you talk about here is why I don’t have a girl over there. My friend that lives there tried to set me up twice. I never got too close to the 1st, because I could visit (lockdown). The second started asking for money for a ‘new phone’ pretty fast., I didn’t bite and w stopped talking. I asked my friend about the 1st before my visit this year and she had a kid with her local boyfriend, and an Aussie she’d suckered into sending her money. You’re right about not doing the LDR thing.
You have a very deep understanding of the Filipina and their culture. Great advice and great topic!
Men can be blinded by the smiling and lovely Filipina. Lol
I meat my girlfriend on FB 5 years ago. Went to see her 5 months later. Then again 3 years later and I plan to retire this year and we will get married next year
My one and only Filipina GF here in the US…we met at work and started dating mostly high sex energy dates since I eventually learned she had a fiancé who was a C level executive and loaded. Good for her. I was her boy toy until she got married to him. So yes they can rationalize just about any situation. It was fun while it lasted. She married the guy and had a kid and was living happily ever after until I bumped into her at the gym. We hooked up for lunch and one last round to settle a score of her husband cheating on her…
I have heard the stories about horny Filipinas too many times to believe they are just a stereotype. It is understandable when you consider that Spain ruled the Philippines from 1564 to 1898 so Spanish colonialists had around 330 years to interbreed with Filipinas. Now you have a highly volatile cocktail of Asian and Spanish blood, which is like a smoldering volcano able to erupt without any warning, giving rise to the expression “Me So Horny.” Think of what happens when you crush two hemispheres of Plutonium together with massive force. If the sum total of both hemispheres achieves Critical Mass, you will expect a massive detonation, or, in our case, Orgasmic Eruption. So, I don’t think we should condemn Filipinas for their uncontrollable lust, because in the immortal words of the famous rocker Little Richard, “The Girl Can’t Help It.”
Now contrast super horny Filipinas with the Puritanical Roots of American Women. The Puritans fled to America because the Europeans kicked their pious asses out of Europe for being insufferable prudes. It was all about sin and and the resultant eternal damnation imposed by their loving and merciful God. Suspected witches were to be burned at the stake, Scarlet Letter A’s and banishment from the community for any un-married women who were caught screwing, and excommunication from the church for uttering a blasphemous remark. A woman was either a virgin or a whore. Puritanism was so oppressive that most young American Women of today have chosen to be whores. And they are proud of it.
We truly live in interesting times.
Reekay… The older brother we always needed..
yep
The most important decision a man will ever make is who he chooses as a mate. To think he can complete the process in 3 weeks lacks common sense and proper judgement. Especially considering the potential long term negative results of choosing the wrong woman. A high percentage of men are poor at selecting their mate in their own country as it is, but to come to a different country, culture and so on is even more difficult. Why be in a hurry?
I am the lucky one, we started chatting in april 2020, married online 2021 january in Utah U.S.A, i got my married visa and first time i get to see my wife that was in march 2021 ( 3weeks in PH). My wife get Residence Permit in September 2021, i come back in November 2021 and new real wedding on the beach and my wife move permanently in Europe with me 2022 January. Now my wife almoust living here 2-years and he got now extended resident permit +4 years and also she is pregnant and expecting her first child with me.
I dont agree that is so hard to find beautiful, never been married and having any baby Fililipina and start chatting with her and build relationship online.
I know so many who is done that and still they are married. Moustly the relationship is starting online, not like you have done it. You are minority and majority of relationships are formed online.
I don’t think I could date a person that wants me to send money. Just too difficult for me culturally as an American
So, four weeks then?
Hi Reekay, how many times have you experienced this happening to you personally? God Bless, thank you for the videos.
10:14 I like your videos so much more lately. As best I recall, in the past it seemed like you would take too long to get to the point, but now I think your videos are great!
I read this book:
“Intercultural Marriage: Promises and Pitfalls” by Dugan Romano
In it I learned that, contrary to what people think, an intercultural marriage is a HIGH-RISK marriage. People seem to think that after you use guidelines to eliminate women who have a plan to scam, the remaining women have traditional values and are much more likely to form a lasting, happy marriage.
Dugan makes the point that nowhere is it traditional for women to marry foreigners. The unusual women who do this are often trying to escape their traditional culture. He says, if you dare to take the risk of an intercultural marriage, don’t compound the risk by marrying a person from another social class. He didn’t say this in so many words, but I believe he means that the difference between people of different classes is just as problematic as the difference between people from different cultures.
Here is an excerpt from a super interesting article, which you should read in its entirety here:
tinyurl dot com slash 47ujyr79
BRIFFAULT’S LAW:
The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.
There are a few corollaries I would add:
1) Past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association.
2) Any agreement where the male provides a current benefit in return for a promise of future association is null and void as soon as the male has provided the benefit (see corollary 1)
3) A promise of future benefit has limited influence on current/future association, with the influence inversely proportionate to the length of time until the benefit will be given and directly proportionate to the degree to which the female trusts the male (which is not bloody likely).
Henry what are the responsibilities once you bring her to your country and chance your mi mind
Sending a gal money does guarantee she will ask for more $$$. LOl! Unfortunately people trying to make a relationship work that you’ve meet in person for 2 or 3 weeks and talked online for a year you tend to blow through red flags coz you’ve spent too many hours online with and spent more money on and don’t see how to meet someone better easily if you’re still in the states or Canada. Very good video.
Can’t imagine why anyone would think you could find and get to know someone from ANYWHERE in the world in three weeks, even with online video chatting and phone calls, without spending MONTHS in person getting to know them. “Boots on the ground” like you say are essential. I’d go even further to say you shouldn’t start looking until you have actual boots on the ground – this means no dating sites until you are there, and even then, like you pointed out, the best places to meet a good woman are in the places most modern people wouldn’t think to normally go to meet a woman (grocery store, bus, church, etc.).
Good advice, mate! Thanks for sharing!
Most women aren’t the only ones delusional.
I don’t get why some guys are wired for self-sabotage.
If it’s pu*sy you want, you don’t have to wreck yourself.
I have been watching a lot of YouTube about Philippines.
And yours videos, in my opinion, are the most REAL.
Thanks for every advice. Very well mature advice.
One has to look before leaping and it’s not a good report to extort money under false pretense and claiming to love
Some years ago I read a comment by a guy on the website “Happier Abroad”. He was basically claiming that you could have a girlfriend 5 minutes after stepping off the plane.
His rhetoric implied that desperate girls where lined up outside the airport just waiting for foreigners to exit the building.
I knew he was full of it, but I did feel it was somewhat insulting to the Filipinas.
Excellent video! So much magical thinking behind those decisions. I know one guy who did that and his Filipina has cheated on him, spent his money, and creates nightmare after nightmare for him.
Your content is so valuable.
I start my location independent lifestyle in Jan in SE Asia. I will continue to care for my elderly mother but will move forward with my life as well. I created excellent loving care for her when I’m away, as my siblings don’t care. I’m a very responsible resourceful man and this is evidence of that. Life is not black or white to me.
I agree with your analogy of the slot machines. To permanently commit to marriage with someone just met seems like trying to make $1million in the stock market in one year with $10. Thank you Reekay
How stupid , people (man) can be, to do this kind of things.
Excellent advice and you are correct in all aspects. But I’m blessed to be the exception to the rule. We met right before Covid, so many visits were delayed, but I do feel that only strengthened our relationship. I did trust in that blind faith and am quit confident in our four year relationship. At this time we’re waiting on the K-1 visa approval. So as I truly believe in your advice, I believe our relationship has been a true blessing from the start. Thank you for sharing.
If you go to Philippines or Southeast Asia looking for a genuine wife, you really need to LIVE THERE.
In time, she and her family/friends will reveal her whole self to you.
Lessons learned
Watched a few hundred YouTubes on PI. Lived in 17 places for 6 months or more in North America, and pretty adaptable. Been to Malaysia and Singapore and some other places, so I think I will like the weather, perhaps in Valencia, not too far from Duma. I think income is more than adequate. Are the provinces North of Valencia good places to visit for a LT relationship? Did my slut thing in my youth. 66 years old. Thanks, and stay well!
GOOD INFORMATION BECAUSE SO MANY SHYSTERS OUT THERE TO STRAIGHT UP LIE TO YOUR FACE OR BEHIND YOUR BACK IT TAKES TIME TO FIND THE ONE
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— The Only Filipina Dating Site I recommend.. https://bit.ly/christian-filipina-dating
View My Videos by Category here.. http://bit.ly/reekays-video-playlists
My Twitter.. https://twitter.com/lifebeyondsea
My New Heaven & Earth Podcast Channel. (theology) https://www.youtube.com/c/LATENIGHTWithReekay
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If you find my content helpful, I appreciate the support.
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