Author: Reekay V.
Since 2012 I’ve been traveling through various islands of the Philippines as a full-time Expat and spent 1999 living in Vietnam.
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Every woman that doesn’t make more money than you only wants you for money and financial security … the ease with which they can divorce, take your money and your kids is too easy and too much of a temptation for them to resist. Stay single.
The Chinese are worse
There is a difference between women who loves you and or “in love” or “into you” you (the latter is always better whether she loves your money or not)
Your channel is for intelligent and sincere people that want to learn about Filipina women. I don’t understand why you don’t have a million followers and 50,000 viewers a day. I watch other channels and they have no content. Or no real discussions.
Anyway, keep it going. It’s great to watch!
Women chase financial security? Tell that to Tom Brady.
Good vid, Reekay!
The only bone I have to pick is that physical attraction is no less important to women than it is to men. But it’s just a starting point. Everything else you said is spot on!
I don’t know any filipina that live with broke or homeless men. Women including Filipina want men with resources. IF the woman has money already then the dynamics change.
You only show these photo mash videos. Are you a photographer? Where do you find all these babies? Are you in Cebu?
good analysis !
I could watch your videos all day long — in the background with the sound turned off. There is something very soothing about the parade of beautiful and smiling filipinas.
Of course, the FIRST time I watch your videos, I have the sound turned on, because your content never fails to impress. Keep up the good work!
Since the caveman days, women have selected the partner who could best provide for her .
Thank you for your content! I’m really looking forward to my first trip to PH this coming spring. Men need to learn how to speak to women like they are humans regardless of where they are from! There is absolutely nothing wrong with assessing a persons value before becoming involved with them.
I feel that the guys you were trying to coach sending picks of their penises are socially inept and pull the same things on American women that don’t work. They should ask themselves what would I think of a guy doing this to my sister, daughter, or mother? If it fails the test then it’s a POS move!
As far as American women goes I 100% agree that they are vastly overvaluing their own worth and often putting unrealistic expectations on men. I’m a healthcare worker, but I am 43 never married and having kids is still a life goal. I also believe in god and a traditional family role. The US is in cultural crisis, and while I never had trouble finding dates in US finding a wife is an entirely different standard and from my view Filipinas are far better as a potential partner.
There is a saying in the Philippines sort of a joke they make about old rich men that want young girls…They won the lottery let’s hope he dies soon and she gets all his money…Don’t fool yourself men… and unless you attach a camera to her head you will never know who she really loves….you are a well paying job for her…If she does have a husband you don’t know about he can legally kill you if he catches you with her alone….makes sure to get her background checked costs 5 bucks…Do you really think these girls have pictures of old grey men on their bedroom walls…never settle for one woman take them all keep them moving never live with them…same goes for the USA…
Resources for youth. That’s the exchange. If ur old n want a young girl, gotta pony up resources.
Never listen to Western women’s shaming language. It’s a load of BS meant to distract you from living your best life.
Getting away from that is your first step to true freedom, and Western women hate a free and happy man.
i am average. my gf is too. she is a widow so she was looking for a forigner for security. i was looking for a simple traditional woman. after two years ldr, with visits, i am here now and its great. she is what i was looking for and i am what she was looking for. love has grown. she treats me great and i treat her good and provide also. win win situation. but yes, she sought out a forigner for finantial stability . i took the deal.
I have never met a woman in any country,that didn’t like to spend my money
Age is just a number. When young woman experienced hardship in life and had failed relationship to filipinos. They learn to became more wiser and when they find a person that they feel secured of love and care then no matter how old or poor the guy is not relevant.
Another great video. I love to speak with my wife about these things and see what she thinks. No matter how long I live, I’ll never fully understand women!
How do you rate your choice ..from 1 1 to 10. Attractiveness….? A brain…..? Now be honest !!
“A majority of Filipinos are old-school conservative”. The 25% single motherhood rate in the Philippines doesn’t mesh well with “old-school conservative”.
This advice is terrible with all do respect to the creator of this video.
Yes a woman is looking for security from a beta provider. When she was high school or college age she most likely didn’t require a man to be financially wealthy or have steady income. She was okay with sex and pizza hut on an air mattress in her youth, but the good man has to pay more than what her first choice had to. I say no thanks to that Filipina or not.
She wants me for my money no way I thought she was after my wrinkles at 74. She is 35
I really like what you have said here and i wish men would know and come to the same conclusions instead of deluding themselves as to why women, especially Filipina want[s] in a man and what she looks for and determines if you will be a couple…Or not! Peace
All women are this way. You pay for her whether it’s by the hour, by the date, or for life. The question you should constantly be evaluating is “What’s my ROI?”
Instead of buying sex. You can buy love.
Dating in the states has become a nightmare. Women go right for the financial jugular vein. I felt like I needed to bring a resume to the date.
I don’t blame anyone wanting financial security, but if that’s ALL you want out of me for your future, we are done 5 seconds later.
I don’t date romantically anymore in the USA.. Im done with it. Just hook ups.
Biding my time until I can retire, and come to the PI.
I will never marry a person who’s only for my money. Take your time to pick a girl before you marry, even if it takes years.
My filipina wants me for my good looks and charming personality. The money is just a bonus.
edit: Also, I love Shakey’s!
I think people who assume Filipinas are just after his money are in some form of jealousy n are just plain ignorant
Just for reference the practice you are referring to is called “hypergamy” which American Webster dictionary defines as “Act or practice of seeking a spouse of higher socioeconomic status, or caste status than oneself.” This practice isn’t exclusive to the Philippines. It’s practiced by women all over the world. As an American, the main difference I see between American women and Philippine women, is that American women shoot higher because of the US economy. Men in the 1% in the US are typically worth millions. In addition, US women are also looking for the multiple sixes (six figure income, six pack abs, since inches below the waist, etc). They want the cream of the crop while viewing their own value well beyond what it actually is. There is, in fact, a raging debate about this in the states. An American male that doesn’t meet this unrealistic criteria, usually can’t get the time of day from an attractive American woman. In the Philippines conversely, that same man (with some decent savings and a steady income stream including social security) is viewed by the women there as a member of the 1%. Expats status and chances for an attractive woman raise exponentially. A smart expat goes to the Philippines knowing that hypergamy happens world wide, and all you’re doing is increasing your chances by increasing your status. As for me and as a reality I feel, “who cares, as long as I can find a good woman to settle down with and help make my remaining days happy ones.”
Book: His Needs, Her Needs.
Author: Dr. Willard Harley
Women’s Needs
1 Affection & Adoration
2 Intimate Conversation
3 Honesty & Openness
4 Financial Stability & Commitment
5 Family Commitment
There is a difference between a woman being attracted to a man or aroused by a man. Men don’t have this duality of desire. Speaking for me, if she’s only attracted to me but not aroused, it’s a hard pass.
Sure, no money, she will kick you out. 100%. Don’t fool ourselves.
I bet in that group 5:35 the phallic picture posters were all nerdy little engineers plaid shirts, khaki pants and crocs (those rubber injection molded shoes).
7:40 “what are you going to do with 100,000 cocktail hostesses”, Marcos exclaimed when a political opponent wanted to expel the American military bases.
This is why I am not married. I despise to be pre-judged by my shoes or car. I am not my shoes nor my car. I have a $80k sports car here but when I’ll go to the Philippines I am not going to spend so much in a country where the roads are terrible and you risk incidents every day. I’ll buy some white KIA like everyone else. If the gold digger is not happy with that, then screw her.
when the man doesnt want kids, and has had a vasectomy, this stuff means nothing.
the catholic church’s restrictions on birth control and abortion and divorce are the main reasons that filipinos are so poor. Another reason is the law against foreigners owning property in Phills. This kills investment that could make Phills MUCH more advanced.
For many, finding a gold daddy is thier full-time goal in life.
It’s as real as any other relationship with a woman.
All of them are true unless you are a chad. And all those looking for car disappear! Why women fall for jobless man, it is because of this!
What about the chickboys and the Tonio’s? There’s a lot of smooth, subjectively good looking BROKE Filipino and foreign guys winning too.
All this tells me is some Westerners aren’t good at minding their own business. Let people live their lives in peace and you do the same.
Thank you for your insights Reekay!
She might be disappointed lol