Author: Reekay V.
Since 2012 I’ve been traveling through various islands of the Philippines as a full-time Expat and spent 1999 living in Vietnam.
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I spent a month in Cebu. It was very easy to talk to women.
Rule #1 ALWAYS be a gentleman. No matter what the outcome.#2 expect the unexpected cause she will 80 percent of the time bring a friend or family member on your first date. If she brings more that 2. Walk away. #3 all that glitters isnt gold. If she approaches you being overly friendly, excuse yourself and bounce. Lastly and this is most important NEVER EVER take anyone where you live.
I guess the Philippine/asian ‘saving face’ also cushions rejection as a flat out no would be impolite. Though it might make being a jerk harder to find out too.
Making a decision on your own about what the other person thinks about you is a problem with some men. It sounds like the fellow in your story was doing that.
With that kind of abundance is there a plan to find what you are looking for, so to speak? I would think older (40s) would be harder to casually find.
Hello i am from canada and this year i went to thailand and did meet a lady fould out after getting to know her she a free lancers …. is the Philippines a lot better for actually meeting somebody I’m in my mid-fifties. I’m active. I would like to have somebody decent to spend my life with. And they’re not only with me for the money. And I think I would be very well living in the Philippines Thailand and I went. I’m open to it. Can you give me any good suggestions of your thoughts? I watch quite a few years stories now. And some of the things you’ve said definitely had home. Thank you for making your videos Gordon
Very good advice, thanks for sharing
Well Dr. Reekay…This is why i call you the Therapy doctor of the Philippines..I am not doing the internet dating scene..I will meet my woman the old Fashion way..Introduce myself and start a Conversation with them …Oh yeah…I am a great listener if they wish to tell me their life story..If I get rejected..There is always another woman waiting to be noticed..
I have this concern: getting close to a girl who could *EASILY* be my daughter and completely look like a creep to her.