Author: Reekay V.
Since 2012 I’ve been traveling through various islands of the Philippines as a full-time Expat and spent 1999 living in Vietnam.
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Finally a video also speaking from the perspective of the woman, and showing respect for the women.
Good food for thought Reekay..
Very good video! Especially we men from the west, who experienced rejection over rejection and got our hearts broken in our home countries, should know how that feels. And now, if on the other side of the equation in the philippines, it should be only fair to treat the filipinas as gentlemen and with respect.
What makes women different outside the US? The Internet? Money? That they work? Women’s Libération? The Pill?
Fear! That is right fear. Listen to what she says about walking down a dark path in complete darkness. She can not just walk in the province alone safely at that hour but in the city also.
Fear!
In the US it is dark before work. So women cannot run. It is dark after work so they still cannot run.
They cannot bike because they will get ran over.
They cannot go to the gym because guys will not let them work out.
I know you say I do not know. Well I know. I run every day. During winter I run in women’s large size reflective tights (The reason is male reflective tights start at 110 Dollars a pair and they must be mail ordered. Women large size reflective tights can be had from 20 to 40 bucks off the retail shelf. If one runs ever day 365 days are in a year to own a few pair of 100 Dollars tights mean one will be washing more than running. I run in the same women’s reflective tight in Ciudad Juárez. You know the city that is know for women being mudered.)
When I wear tights women’s and men’s tights men in the US cars at least once a week follow me until they descover I am not a women.
Mexicans on the other hand within the week discover that women’s reflective tights are less expersive and available without having to pay the 19 percent import tax and they run past me in a pair and wave.
Fear. Again Fear. It is a fearful thing to be a women in the US. Little wonder they feel the way they do.
I had no understanding of their fear until I saw how women act outside the US.
The running in Drag, if you like, had no effect on me. Men said that is because of the tights. Women said now you know why we are afraid.https://youtu.be/O0ifcAS_1U0?si=iJUY8iLx6O_c7agv
Excellent video. Really mature. I liked it very much.
I have finally found her. To a Filipino what you see here is the perfect Filipina.
Here Is why. Look at her eye brows. They are not plucked
Look at her legs. See how musculaire are the back of her legs.
Look at her willingness to breath the smoke of the cooking fire.
Look at how well she uses a bolo knife.
Most importantly she how she climbs and descends that Coco Palm.
I have know a Filipina of this type since she was 18. She Is 45 now loving in Pittsburgh PA.
She came to visit. She ran a half Marathon with me. She retuned to Pittsburgh and sent viedo of her running in thé Pittsburgh Half Marathon. She averaged 8 minute miles.
She was a profesor of Computer Science in Cebu before she married and come to the US to start her família.
Because her mother was a sex worker in Olonga Po she had an Afro American father.
Even though she was tall, full body, atheltic, and strong Pinoys could not forget about her parents.
She speaks 10 Filipino Languages, English, he Spanish is Ok, and I could teach her Português in 4 months and to read French and German in a year if need be.
The girl in this viedo is the same type She is strong, fearless, well spoken, but does not look like a China Doll.
Can she look like a China Doll? Yes. But you want to meet her like she is in this viedo first.
Show her viedo to any Pinoy. Then show the Pinoy a vídeo or photo if a Filipina China Doll, the type that are on the cover of the viedo attached to your comments, ask thé Pinoy which women is best?
Life is long só long that fine China shatters but earthen ware…terracada just chips a little bit.
Here she Is: https://youtu.be/j-pZS3rA7dU?si=xVeMq4FZvFWZA3xa
Great video. Real man have self discipline & self control. ACT, Attraction Chemistry Trust are the base foundation for a long term relationship.
The only issue I see with this mentality reekay is that you’re not going to get to really know the girl after one day. Since intimacy is inevitably going to happen by date two or three, how would you have the proper information whether to proceed or stop? You’re not really going to get to know the girl until after at least 6 months. You have to see how she behaves herself in life situations both good and bad
Great video and I agree with your view on being a real man and not using the Filipina to fullfil one’s selfish desires. I personally myself have a Filipina that I love so much and we both are young (both of us 21 years old) and we have been together online for 16 months before meeting in person and she is the only one I think of her both in good and bad moments and any instagram model will never grab my attention as I don’t think it’s lady like for a woman to seek attention from many males simply by showing off her body in a particular way. For me a modest woman that only submits to her partner and wants to work as a team with only him is the most lady like a woman can be which my Filipina is and she is the only thing I keep on desiring.
“Single mother” is the key phrase here. A huge red flag. It’s a no-no
I love that this guy expects and counsels responsibility in dealing with vulnerable people.
We shouldn’t become what we hate. Respect for that.
you dont need “X factor” for marriage. marriage is not for lust its for procreation and cooperation, nothing romantic about it. this is the hard truth
thanks for the video, you are amazing
Good advice.
Excellent video Reekay. This is the playbook for conscious dating in the Phillipines. I have a “do no harm” policy. This is a good example. I think for some men being viewed surprisingly they are highly desired in contrast to back in the west, can be temporarily confusing. Your words here can prepare men how be more conscious in the Phillipines.
When I see all of these passport bros. Most are over 50. And then I see the under 30 year old women that they have relationships with. And I just shake my head.
Ya…. I get it. These men have worked all their lives, and now they want to cut loose. But you must be careful, because if you don’t vet to guard yourself. You may loose more than a broken heart. Oh ya…. a lot of the locals, look at these simps as a sweet lick.
Also, remember that they are in a foreign land and therefore have no rights or protections. But I’m not saying that all of the locals will look at them as a meal ticket or someone to scam. But there are many that will.
Soooo…..Buyer beware.
Very interesting. Were these pictures made with AI? Can i ask, which AI you used for that?
You have a very knowledgeable and intelligent approach to the different subject you cover, keep on
Social media has even ruined dating in 3rd World Countries.