Author: Reekay V.
Since 2012 I’ve been traveling through various islands of the Philippines as a full-time Expat and spent 1999 living in Vietnam.
Share with me my ongoing adventures of life in the Philippines. Hopefully you find my observations helpful in your own adventures.
— Reekay
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Dang…. What does that say about somebody who would dump their romantic interest the second something more interesting comes along?
The scenario you painted tells far more than where she stood with the other guy. It tells you that you cannot trust her. Because it’s only a matter of time, before you become, the other guy. Better not to waste your time with someone like that.
I’m not sure why you would want someone that would drop their bf like that. That just means she’ll do the same to you. That’s the epitome of disloyal.
The relationship she has with a Filipino may not mean much to her, BUT it might mean a lot to the Filipino.
Life can be cheap. Its not a “one way street”.
By attraction you mean interest in your money
Loved the video and the rationale behind not asking. Only thing is that it would make me a little nervous, since a jilted lover is a thing. Everyone knows everybody’s business in the PH and I would think that someone would tell the ex boyfriend, “Hey your girlfriend just went out with that foreigner, and I saw them at xxx. He’s staying at the xxx apartment complex.” Wouldn’t want a visit from someone who wasn’t ready to let go, though obviously it’s never happened to you in over a decade of dating in the PH.
Sadly this is all women everywhere. They’re as loyal as their best option. I’ve realized men are actually a lot more romantic and loyal in the way we think.
I met my wife of 17 years on a dating site. Cherry Blossoms. The key is to correspond/talk with as many Filipinas as possible and look for a Conservative/Professional woman. And meet her family. And I have to say as a permanent resident here for 8 years. A lot of you guys take the bf lightly and a lot of you guys end up dead.
Thanks for another great video. Maybe I should cut back on the marijuana, but I find your videos incredibly funny. I spent just enough time in the Philippines to know that it incredibly easy to find a smoking hot Filipina, but in my case I wasn’t free to do that. Thailand is the same situation. As long as you don’t look like the Elephant Man, it is easy to meet fantastic Thai Ladies. Your advice is sound and I am sure it is helpful to all Western newbies. Please keep the videos coming.
I think what you’re talking about is having a prosperous attitude toward women and life. Rock on!!
People on other parts of social media say you can’t be friends with the opposite sex.
But thats the problem…I dont want a woman in my life who is abusing some random dude for money.
And I would have let the poor bro know. Grabbed the phone and told him. Sorry, people work hard for their money and to have some hussy “finesse” him is beyond screwed up.
Doesn’t that show how shallow characters and low morale women they are and what loyalty really means to them if they are willing to dump their whatever boyfriend for the first foreigner that comes along? Would You be able and willing to trust such a woman? Will she not cheat on You as well the moment You turn Your back?
If you treat a Filipina like a child and not an adult you won’t be disappointed. They never grow up. They may look all grown up on the outside but mentally they are still six years old. Me me me, it’s all about them.
YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT. YOU ADVICE/EXPERIENCE/SUGGESTIONS ARE INVALUABLE. THANK YOU SO MUCH!
I’m sorry, but if I was with a chick and she’s talking on the phone LTO g to her boyfriend I can’t do it. She immediately becomes gross to me. Sure maybe what they have isn’t super serious, but end it then. A woman capable of doing that without feeling bad ain’t one I want to deal with
Met a filipina 36 years old and she said she’s a virgin. She has never had a boyfriend, but a lesbian friend and now she wants to be with a man because she wants a family, a child. Can you trust a woman like that?
At 8:39 , I met that girl, and she told me she doesn’t have a bf.
At the end of the day..MOST people generally are not honest/genuine.
Most often people look for status/money etc. Not looking for real people.
Vegas odds are!!??….
Are rings (engagement/wedding) a thing over there? Are they common among the Rich/Middle Class/Poor?
Dating sites are hopeless. It’s better to meet them in person. This is the complete opposite in the West. If you approach women in North America in a grocery store or on the bus, they will think you are insane.
In the Philippines, women are on the make to meet a better man.
Foreigners are always the better man. Filipino guys don’t care. There are so many available women there, it doesn’t make since to get hung up on some woman. Lol
For some quick fun, sure… But do you want to start a relationship with someone who is just looking for the next best thing that comes along?
Well, they may lie about having boyfriends, but better be truthful when they are asked the following: “How old are you? (Many of them look younger than their age.) Do you have a husband? Are you a mother?” Given your account of the current situation there, I am not so confident that they will tell the truth.
To put it into perspective, Music artists and Athletes don’t ask chicks do they have a boyfriend…they just start talking to them and don’t care if she has a boyfriend or not. Point being? Let the chick tell you on her own if she has a boyfriend. Some chicks will tell you right away, some chicks will keep it from you the whole time, some chicks will tell you after ya’ll have sex. There’s no need to ask a chick if she has a boyfriend. If she interested in you, she’s going to hangout with you regardless of her relationship status.
She’s not in love with her (now) ex-boyfriend, and she’s not really in love with you (her new boyfriend). Hypergamy at work, which is understandable considering most of their options.
Wow, who is that goddess in the pictures? I’d hop on a plane to meet her (or someone just like her). hahah
I have a question:
Wouldn’t you like to know if she HAS(suddenly HAD) a BF/ExPat?
That way, you’d know if she’s just ‘monkey branching’,
and not to take her seriously?
I mean, fun is fun, but, I’d hate to end up one of her many ‘runner ups’.
Thank you Reekay.
Great content. I didn’t know the beginning of your story where you were in the Phillipines not how you intended because your Filipina helped her ex with his health. I respect what you did for yourself to turn that around. Being with someone who is in another relationship like you mentioned, is that a concern for safety? I’m interested for future experiences. Your content is invaluable and is very clear. Thank you.
When I was in high school there was one nice looking girl everyone assumed had a boyfriend because she was so nice. How could she not have a boyfriend? So we thought. Maybe it was that or fear of rejection, but later I found out that no one had asked he out.
If you ask her out vs. asking if she has a boyfriend, she can choose to see you regardless of her status.
If a Filipina has a boyfriend and doesn’t tell you about it she shows a lack of character, but if she does and you know about it and you stick with her then you have a lack of character
They always say no. It’s called hypergamy.
My game is to start a conversation make some jokes and laugh a little and have them wanting. I’m a good looking guy, i have money but i hide all of that. I don’t want to be a target. I just want to be breezy. I never ask for a number but sometimes a number is given to me from them. In the trash it goes.Sometimes i get unlucky and I meet them again by chance and they ask why I haven’t called. I just say I was busy and they give their number again. (I never carry a phone with me since to me its a status symbol there.) I’m just a lowly me. What puts me out of place is that im in shape. But I’ll play their game and im the one that’s hard to get.
Maybe asking them about the boyfriend helps with plausible deniability if a boyfriend/husband shows up instead of her? You are a great storyteller, I bet you have some good ones about running into an ex.
Good one. We shouldn’t assume all beautiful women are taken. Worse yet, I mostly feel they’re out of my league or I can’t afford to maintain them. I’m looking forward to the Philippines changing all of that. Having the confidence to walk up to gorgeous stunners is a hurdle that I hope becomes natural.
Asking her if she has a boyfriend is actually a pretty good opener, it breaks the ice. Especially for guys that are exceptionally shy or have no game. Not that you need game with a filipina, but it takes a while for guys from the west to realize that.
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— Get a Quote on Expat Health Insurance.. https://bit.ly/expat-insurance-LBTSea
— How I send Money to the Philippines.. https://remit.ly/1amhoix
— Loctote Flak Sack Ⅱ – Anti Theft Backpack.. https://amzn.to/3tXuBDk
— The Only Filipina Dating Site I recommend.. https://bit.ly/christian-filipina-dating
View My Videos by Category here.. http://bit.ly/reekays-video-playlists
My Twitter.. https://twitter.com/lifebeyondsea
My New Heaven & Earth Podcast Channel. (theology) https://www.youtube.com/c/LATENIGHTWithReekay
More at http://www.lifebeyondthesea.com
If you find my content helpful, I appreciate the support.
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