Author: Reekay V.
Since 2012 I’ve been traveling through various islands of the Philippines as a full-time Expat and spent 1999 living in Vietnam.
Share with me my ongoing adventures of life in the Philippines. Hopefully you find my observations helpful in your own adventures.
— Reekay
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I like that you have stated what I have known about is that women there are as hypergamous as most of their Western sisters, but with great qualities and wifely material for man and will help him to effect a comfortable and even push him to greater heights in his employment or his business. There are many advantages than disadvantages, despite some familiar issues and such. Peace
This is so True !! Whe I first started looking at Filipinas I had mostly 20 something girls chatting me. But it was mostly silly BS and Not what I wanted. I changed my criteria to 31 to 36 and I found these women had more experiences and easier to keep a conversation going. Of course they all have kids and the few that did not were to crazy for me. I have been with my Filipina over 4 years now and married almost 2 years. She does everything I ask of her and more. The only thing that changed when we married was she gained some weight. When I mention it to her she wants more sex. Is that exercise or manipulation – Who Cares !! When I watch her haggle on prices or see her smile at me in the elevator – I still get wood – after almost 5 years of being together. Is she a perfect 10? No – but I don’t worry about her leaving me or of another guy putting moves on her. And her daughter treats me better than my biological daughter in the States. A Great Wife & a Great Step-Daughter – whats not to Love & Enjoy !! Just remember – even in the Philippines – everyone is unique and different from each other.
Yes, good jobs are hard to come by in Philippines. I was visiting Manila and I went to a 7 11 to buy a drink, there was a posting for a job as a clerk at 7 11 and the requirements were ridiculous; 20 to 30 years of age, good appearance, bachelor’s degree in business and it was a minimum wage job. I told the clerk on duty that in the USA if you barely spoke English and had the desired to work, the job could be yours. She said: “I know sir, I want to go to America”.
Village Populations never seem to increase. When a gal gets pregnant, a chap leaves town.
You have the most beautiful photos during your shows
Very true Henry these were 2 things my ex Filipina Fiance sought from me. Great video and hope you enjoy your day!
They are great also being jeallious (extreme). One time a month Tampo and maybe crazy little bit:) .Yes they are great everything positiv can imagine. Have positive and negative sides. Western woman have only negativ:)
Nice, straightforward information Reekay. Within the last year I’ve been to Georgia (country), Thailand, Malaysia, Mexico and now in Russia. Women here are beautiful but many seek “higher than normal” incomes from their man of interest. I’m considering traveling now to PH, perhaps Cebu. Are there any respectable dating sites that could prep me before I have boots on the ground?
Facts! But I have a question Reekay about the plethora of dating success you say westerners can experience in the Philippines. I spent many months there and It is extremely rare to run into a “9” but your fiend straight dumped his babe girlfriend? I’ve had many flings and GFs in the Ph But I’ve never even met a 9 in the Philippines, I can’t see just dumping one because she’s empty headed.
A lot of filipino men are babaero. That fact alone is why most filipinas are looking for foreigners. The sad thing is that a lot of foreigners are also babaeros.
3hrs 4 times a week…….. Jesus. I be happy rn with 3mins twice a week
I had a choice between the Phils and Vietnam… unfortunately I chose VN… not that there is anything wrong with VN, in itself… but many people here are extraordinarily materialistic… and my wife is one of them 🙁 … add to that that she is a shocking narcissist.. should have gone to the Phils…
The women that he have in these videos they are very beautiful women. Look, they have no tattoos. The woman I’m dating in the Philippines she looks just like them same height, same hair, same body style she works as a receptionist, barely making money. I help support her and her daughter. Never has she ask me for a dime. I give her go to to make ends meet. She never ask for more sometimes I surprise her. I’ll send money just because. He’s telling the truth they looking for something long-term somebody is going to support them financially and spiritually.
I’ve always said, “I want a lady on (not of) the streets who will stimulate my mind and soul, and a tigress in the sheets that can stimulate my body!”
I definitely understand the financial stability and emotional stability thing. I think we all look for those two things to some degree. I admire a woman who is not a spendthrift (but not uber frugal either) who is going to be there for me when I need her the most, and I mirror those same traits back to her.
Good episode, mate! Thanks for sharing!
I would have to disagree with you at some degree. Being Filipino American and visiting the Philippines many times, most Filipino men do whatever they can to provide and care for the their wife and families. You can say the same thing about American men in the west that get women pregnant and leave. But I do agree American women do have more opportunities in the US than Filipino women in the Philippines.
Reekay,, another really good video great info and insight on alot of thgs I soon will be experiencing when I come to the Philippines this month coming November, thank you for always being so transparent forthcoming it helps alot being im coming there from the US & dont know anybody. Thank U!
Well put Reekay., women all over the world want security and desire. Men want respect and loyalty. This is generally true for people who are looking for relationships. Western women are able to provide their own security so, the equation changes and desire become more paramount. Western men actually have changed over time and become, or some says trained to be more accommodating to women. This is another reason foreign woman find us more appealing. You are still going to need to gain her trust and respect so that she will respect and be loyal to you. I would ask a Filipina who I had a big age gap relationship with, what will you do when you find someone better than me after we get married. Will you continue to choose me? When you truly love someone, you accept them with all their flaws, which we all have. Don’t marry anyone that you aren’t deeply in love with and hope it will work out. Most likely you won’t be happy.
2 things that I would want also .
you hit on some really good points. I totally agree with you.
I have only dated 2 that met my “ideal” criteria in the looks department. Both were nightmares. Look at her insides first. Then worry about the looks. Looks will fade. Inner beauty is forever.
I envy the young men of Western Countries because they have easy access to the best women in the world. Most have enough money to travel all over the world to find a good lady. If they are looking for a lasting love relationship with a lady, I recommend Thailand and the Philippines in Asia, Costa Rica and Columbia in South America, and Russia and Ukraine in Europe. I have visited all of these countries multiple times, as well as 50 other countries. This is not to say that there are no good women in other countries, but the chances of finding a good lady are much higher in these six countries.
A lot of wisdom in this video.
I knew a Philippines woman who would cook clean house so beautiful so good companion friendly woman talk to
They are so beautiful Philippines woman
I never understood how Filipinos, in general, are considered to be family oriented while the men are for known for being absentee fathers.
1) They want honest and sincerity. But they have to give it first before they get it.
Great message. Dating in the west, let it go “like a bad dream!” Perfect. I appreciate your clear message. It’s important to let go and heal from the tormenting of the west before making any relationship decisions otherwise the bias can contribute to very poor consequences. Thank you Reekay.
Good summary of what should be my focus and that of a Filipina. I plan to join a dating site and do an exploration trip within three months. This helps clarify what to put in the profile.
I believe most want to give all there love to one man so I think loyalty is huge as well perhaps as honesty.
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