Author: Reekay V.
Since 2012 I’ve been traveling through various islands of the Philippines as a full-time Expat and spent 1999 living in Vietnam.
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Is the world ready for “Red Pill Reekay?” The simps are on the run! Stop sending money to women you’ve never met!
To a degree we are informed by stories movies and songs, that women are and should be tested as “angels” and put on a pedestal. This simply is not true.
Women are people same as men. Being people men and women are not perfect. Far from in many cases. Mental and emotional issues,and basic life philosophy make everyone unique and if you will, sit on a spectrum. Most people fit in the middle and get along good enough to not be a problem. Others are overly sensitive or some hard as rocks. Some have anger issues some would rob you blind without a second thought. We know these people exist and some hide it so well you don’t see it until it’s to late to avoid some sort of impact from them.
Like Jesus said,, “There are none perfect, No not one”.
It’s a psychological feedback loop. If you want to find out how much a guy puts women on a pedestal, ask him for the results of the first five women he asked on a date. Men who get rejected put women on a pedestal because rejection enhances the scarcity mindset. You get rejected often enough and a beautiful women isn’t a human being anymore, she’s a member of an entirely different species in that guy’s mind.
I was at anime expo in LA last weekend and there were a lot of women there with their boyfriends, but there were also a lot of attractive women who were there with their friends. Despite wanting to approach, I never did the entire four days because cold approaching women in public is outlawed in the west. You can’t do it anymore, and I saw so many guys who would make great boyfriend or husband material who were at a show with plenty of attractive women and no one was talking to each other, even though by being at a convention, there was plenty of shared interest. The way men and women interact is completely and totally broken in America.
I can honestly say that i give your videos most all “Thumbs Up” here, as they should be MANDATORY for newbies and expats living there to live a productive and good comfortable life…Not one filled with hassles and troubles and messes that could have been totally avoided and eliminated, if one listened to logic and reasoned it out as “Go Or No Go” to situations and people that we would not deal with in our country and scams we would be aware with in the West…But lose all sense//Common and Uncommon there in Asia. And Women are the biggest part of these events that could cause pain and heartache and even financial ruin. Seen it done…Got the T-shirt. Could say more…But keep on trying to warn and get thru to those who will listen..And apply. Peace
Good advice. Great scenery. Very relaxing. Thanks!
I found out the hard way (cheated on and divorced) that when you put someone on a pedestal soon they will be looking down on you.
Wake up simps!!
I dont freeze up because I elevate them AT ALL… I think she’s probably an entitled B that will act like she is better than me and enjoy shooting me down so I dont like to give them the oppotunity to treat me poorly. I do realize this is my US women crap I need to mentally overcome.
Date a few stunningly beautiful but crazy women and you will realize that this supermodel on probation just as much as as you are during the initial phases of any interaction/dating.
Patrice O’Neal – The relationship works best when she loves you, and you like her.
Just notice: guys who appear to gain and grow good, long-lasting relationships find women who others might not find very attractive or only average, but when you see them together, her personality and attitude brings the spark that becomes good relationship glue.
Sure, a 65-year old might find a beautiful 20-year old but chances are, they have nothing to talk about…
excellent advice
About 12:29: Women play the “I can fix that” game. Guys have too much stuff to do to play that game.
About 2:22: That is a fantastic sand castle!
Awesome advise as usual !!! Excellent guidance for guys in the West as well !
Global knowledge here no matter where your at in the world…
Thanks for another great video
Truth in any country.
Good information
Well said.
Very nice video as always. I enjoyed the footage more than the usual AI generated images. Thank you
Excellent point you nailed it all four corners you can be a good guy but absolutely not a nice guy.
Two of the MOST POWERFUL words in ANY relationship:
STOP and DON’T.
However, people are who they are and can not change so if someone DOES things you don’t like you REALLY SHOULD drop them and move on.
PS
They S test because they are FELLING insecure so the question becomes how much time do you want to spend TRYING to make a girl FEEL secure because the way YOU want to make her feel secure and the way she WANTS you to make her feel secure may be very different.
Good points. Thanks for the reminder and reinforcement of “not to rush into things”. I am 74 and got back from an eight week exploratory visit a month ago. A Filipina (only 2 texting chats from US) traveled with me the last 6 weeks, after I visited her in the province and meet her siblings for 5 days. She may be the one. I worry because she is the first and only Filipina I have dated. Though she is 51, she looks better to me than most Filipinas with foreigners, including the young ones. She checks all the boxes you mentioned. Next month I will be coming back for a month and stay in one place with a kitchen, so we can be in a domestic mode. In December I plan to leave the US for at least a year, probably more.
Congratulations on your best video ever my friend
For it to last. She HAS TO like you more than you like her. YOU are the prize.
If you Simp, you’re toast.
Great video, Reekay. Wise words indeed.
This basically puts me back into the mindset I had growing up through my early to mid-20’s, and life was simple. Set your standards and enforce your boundaries.
I look forward to your next video.