Author: Reekay V.
Since 2012 I’ve been traveling through various islands of the Philippines as a full-time Expat and spent 1999 living in Vietnam.
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We learn from our past relationships and mistakes to make better judgement and also loneliness can play a factor in bad decisions and rushed feelings.
Good Advice! Over the years I have come to believe that there are 6 or 7 different general personality types of people. That being said, every person “matches” up with a specific personality type, so there are many people that are compatible with you for relationships, based on what personality type they are.
True
The perfect/fantasy person does not exist, that includes you. Make a list of what’s important (you’re must haves, would like to have and those things you would never accept). Finds the ones that meets most of what ur looking for. Hopefully you meet most of hers.
Great vid bro. I find honstly that ppl never find the so called ” soulmate”. Cause 2 ppl will never completely agree on everything. I think the best thing that can happen is you find someone so cool with you and you love so much, you cant or dont want to imagine living even 48 hours without.
I always recommend your show to anyone I know and that of the Pea even though I lived there for years because it saves me the trouble of trying to explain everything.
I agree with you 100%.A deal breaker for me with a Filipina would be her prioritizing her family over your own relationship. I say make the lazy fucking family especially the brothers support their own ass. The second deal breaker would be scamming with family to get money out of you for fake shit like medial bills ect. Most Filipinas are good people especially in the provincial areas but to many hose bags in cities for me.
That’s a pretty good video!
REEK : I WOULD SUGEST WHEN YOU SAY “USE YOUR HEAD” please SPECIFY, WHICH HEAD BECAUSE IT DOES MAKE A DIFFERENCE “BIG DIFFERENCE” .
ONE ADVICE “NEVER DRINK TOO MUCH ALCOHOL “ AND “NEVER FALL IN LOVE” BEFORE YOU ARE SURE , VERY CERTAIN THAT ,IT IS THE RIGHT ONE , BECAUSE,BOTH THINGS WILL CLOUD YOUR MIND AND MAKE U “STUPID”
I am glad U qualified what you believe that not everyone is going to have the same conception of it. It has been 45 yrs. since I was truly single long enough that I don’t remember a whole lot of what it was like. I have never been a player. I would say most expats would say all western woman are bad. I like a lot of western women& believe there are good ones & bad. When I met neneng on messenger I was not looking for a GF and I had never met a Filipina before. I just thought wow she is a nice girl. I really don’t think you can apply logic (which I think logically) to emotions because they are not logical. Just ask Mr. Spock. lol
No such thing as a soul mate.
When can never love you the way you want them to. They can only respect you
And liars like Andy Omar claiming that it’s all about money, generalizing all Filipinas. A young, jealous punk that can’t stand the thought of an older man and younger woman in love.
Must:
1) Christian (Strong Moral Values)
2) Positive Attitude (Mature)
3) Purpose In Life (Goals, Not Just Marriage)
4) Family-oriented (Loving and Caring)
5) Good Qualities (Trustworthy, Honest . .)
Deal Breakers:
1) Bad Habits (Obvious)
2) Materialistic
3) Always Mad or Hateful
4) Self-centered
5) Can’t Admit When She is Wrong
True, you can find more than one soulmate. But, your quest must end at some point and stop looking over the fence in hopes of finding a soulmate that is just a little better than what you have already found. Once you have settled the matter in your heart, make a commitment and don’t look back.
Very good video ! ! After more than 3 yrs I may of found my special one here. The Phils is a “happy culture” where meeting girls is very easy. My belief more & more is finding a girl who’s English is very good, college educated, enjoys working & trusting/honesty is a must. May be one of the few places on earth where age gap don’t really matter & a “sloth” can become a real “hottie”. teehe just IMO
The idea of “Soul Mate” comes from Greek mythology. It was thought that people had two heads, four arms, and four legs with one body. One of the Greek Gods decided to cut them in half. So the the two halves were walking around looking for their other half….
Im not here to judge anyone ..one things im just one to tell evryone here is pls be kind and have a true motivation of finding a true and loving filipina..Cos in the end God is watching and we have a count of what we did..
So the moral of the story is have 1 girlfriend in the Philippines, 1 in Indonesia, 1 in Thailand, and 1 in Vietnam!
I agreed what you said that there is no such soul mate. As I been in many countries like you but not blogger. Having same ideas as u said
Far too much wisdom and common sense here haha, and so true. I’m sure that many Western men, after years of cold, hard hearted and passionless Western women, are blown away by the completely opposite Filipinas. It’s easy to get involved and committed very quickly to these beautiful women. The mindset of abundance, is completely alien to most Western men, after the scarcity of great women in their own country. I believe, that finding “the one”, is when you find someone who is the closest you have ever found to your ideal person, that you don’t wish to go through the search process any longer. Your videos are great Reekay, so helpful and well thought out.
No soulmate. Women all are pocket mate
Think of kings and rulers of the past that maybe met and dated thousands of women and they could have any woman in the whole country they wanted. They finally picked dozens or even hundreds of them that they thought were all their soulmate type to keep around their castle. Which kind of illustrates the point that there’s more than one woman who could qualify as your soulmate. Although I know you didn’t mean having a whole bunch of soulmates at the same time. Lol
Hey Reekay, good video. Your current apartment looks very nice , please tell me the cost of such a place.
I have a soul mate, and its waiting for me in heaven
Psychologists have studied this, they found you can take people at random and the chance of a successful relationship is as high as 1 out of 3!
SOULMATE BY ZITRON YOU TUBE IT IS A REAL THING
Wow! That’s a very nice living room, Henry! Where are you living now? You probably mentioned something about that in one of your previous videos, but it’s been a while since I watched them!